Molestation

Molest \Mo*lest"\, v. t. [imp. & p. p. Molested; p. pr. & vb. n. Molesting.]

[F. molester, L. molestare, fr. molestus troublesome, fr. moles a heavy mass, load, burden. See 3d Mole.]

To trouble; to disturb; to render uneasy; to interfere with; to vex.

They have molested the church with needless opposition. --Hooker.

Syn: To trouble; disturb; incommode; inconvenience; annoy; vex; tease.

Source: Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary (1913)

if a person is unwilling or incapable
of expressing their own feelings
and if this person is unwilling or incapable
of honoring yours
that person will probably molest you
in one way or another

if that person is your mother, father or a superior
that person may molest you and demand that you keep quiet

if that person is a child, sister or brother
that person may molest you passive aggressively
through bitterness, negative attitude or manipulation

when it comes to a point
when the molester is unwilling or incapable
of honoring your feelings
you must either remover yourself from them
or you must remove them from you
but first one must express their feelings honestly

pay little attention to what people think or say
most people i know are being molested
in one way or another
and have been their entire lives
either by priests, employers, or in mis-matched relationships
being subordinated and emasculated by another's physical or mental power
such is classically the case with women and children